So, I need to start somewhere. I've been seeing my new T for something like 6 months, because I was depressed and because of problems of attachment (either huge transferences on people who never asked anything... or complete lack of trust). So after those 6 months, I am starting to be "attached" to my T, and it scares me to death, because I am sure it will hurt me + she will react by kicking me out (though this belief does not have any rational origin, except what happened anytime I get attached. I feel it is some kind of fault and that therefore, for my own good, she will get rid of me if I ever let myself see her not as a useful tool but as someone who cares.
I was wondering if I should broach the subject now, while I only have 3 sessions before a gigantic break of 3 months (I go back to my home country for the summer, and although she offered to do Skype sessions, I just can't... I mean, I am too afraid of phones to answer my friends calling me, so Skype is just impossible for me.) So should I broach the subject now, since I finally mustered the courage to say it because there is no way I can go on avoiding this HUGE thing without preventing the therapy from being useful?
But what if she does reject me? What if I have to leave for 3 months without knowing whether she will abandon me for that? I am just not too sure of that this is the right timing. I am already anxious that she will just say "no, you shouldn't be a patient anymore" about pretty much anything (what if she feels I am not improving? What if she feels I do not need to improve? What if I am just too boring? What if she thinks I am just a spoiled kid?... you know those questions, and how fun they are to deal with).
So basically do I jump now, or later?
Does any of you have any recommendation on the subject?
I hope it is not too confused, and, once again, please forgive my English...