Sending 's AH

Jillann

Aw, AH, wish I could do something more than just offer cyber hugs and words. If I may, though, because you ARE going thru the grieving process, it's going to take time. Not what you want to hear, I'm sure, but maybe be more gentle with yourself. It is a major loss. Please don't add pressure to yourself. I understand you don't need this on top of everything else cuz it just distracts you from the main issues you're trying to work on. I hear you.

Sending you gentle and comforting hugs.

The Kid

PS hope my post doesn't upset you cuz that ain't my intent....

Oh AH,

I'm sorry you're hurting so. I'm with TK on the advice. Try to take care of yourself as best you can without putting pressure on yourself. This is going to take time.
And keep calling in. We're here for you.

Dear AH, I'm praying that the pain softens for you sooner than later.

Sending hugs

AH -- I'm so sorry you are going through this right now and that it has not been a quick and painless process. One can only distract themselves *so* much before grief re-pokes its way in. The distracting oneself and the grieving are both exhausting, I know. I'm glad you are sharing your experience. It is a help to me, although I would rather you have never experienced this.

((AH))