What do therapists do when someone shows maternal transference?
It could become such a bind if they showed support of these types of transference and if they didnt it could become rejection.
quote:My T is the first person to whom I've shared my childhood secret. She calls this my "authenic self". And it feels so good to share my inner world with someone who seems to accept me. I've taken pictures to therapy too...and cried. So, when I connect with my younger "person", I let her know I love her and if she wants to be a boy, that's fine with me.
quote:I still feel stupid though, almost like I'm afraid someone is going to find out that I am being nice to her and reprimand me for it. <--- Lil bit of shame there still! And I don't see her yet. It's more of a feeling and a voice for me, like someone saying, "hey, what about me?"
quote:I spent a very long time wanting to ask for a hug from my therapist. There are times where things could feel so overwhelming and scary that I really just wanted to be held so I could feel safe.
quote:If she has a "no hug policy" it is vital that you reach an understanding that this is not a personal rejection and work on that as long as you need to.
quote:I'll be pulling for you!
quote:Originally posted by Chronically Transferred:
Geez guys, I didn't know I needed to be ancient in order to fit in here...
LOL! I kid, I kid.
You don't mind sharing all this stuff with someone younger than your kids, do ya? Hope not, I'm liking it here!
quote:It was wonderful and I floated out of his office.
quote:Originally posted by Just Me:
I never seem to get to finsish one thiing before several other things come up each week that I am having to turn my attention to. I think you mentioned that problem too PL? Does anybody else have that experience? Like you have so much going on that is so important that you can never seem to finsih anything?
quote:I hate spending this kind of money...I'd rather save my $$$ for "retail therapy" but I need this more.
quote:Originally posted by Jo:
Soulful did you draw that puppy?
If you did you did a great job!
quote:I couldn't resist the urge to post it for PL...she had such a great breakthrough. She is now free from HER cage!
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