I know it can end instantly, f.ex. due to the therapist hurting the patient or vice versa. But I´m looking for experiences from people that have ended transference „the right way“ I want to know if that is possible and how it can be done.
I also want to know if you think transference can be dangerous?
In august last year a young man (23) killed the boyfriend of his girl-friend since childhood. When he was 9 he experienced a trauma, when his father shot himself in the head at their home.
The boy isolated himself from the world, but it seems like he has been able to talk about his experience to this girl, and she became very dear friend to him.
He lived in his own computer world, and two years ago he posted a intimate love confession for this girl on youtube. Many young people watched the video and laughed at this „crazy guy“
The girl didn´t love him but he couldn´t stop thinking about her.
I wonder if something similar to transference happened. What do you think?
Can the deepest transference make you a murderer?
The video he posted(icelandic) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v...-V7c&feature=related
Thank you all for beeing there