Wow, Froggy! good for you, telling all! and, I have a cute image of you, telling it all, with your dear old T kind of scratching his lovely head over all of this internet stuff!
I just want to tell you, that you have nothing at all to feel guilty about. (I bear some guilt, but not you.) You have been only sharing your own feelings and thoughts, never attacking, and have handled it beautifully in all ways, Froggy. You have been an example to me. You shared it all with your T, too, which is "the ultimate." You have done everything right. Be at peace on that score. And as for feeling in the middle of your T and your parents...this is the therapy...right?
I'm so glad that he was so supportive and caring, in the background.
I am also very glad that your lovely T would have no idea how to look this thread up!
You are sweet, Froggy. I think that is something everyone can agree on. Keep hopping!
Bee