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Later in the day I felt a new strong feeling arising inside me. It was an attitude of mind which said if I want to do something just do it, if I want to say something just say it, and if I want something just try and get it. It felt like healthy aggression, the aggression that is needed just to be a normally assertive independent person.
This feeling is unprecedented and unlike anything I learned in childhood. It feels like a potentially independent person arising inside me and if it grows and develops it could transform my life.
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That feeling of autonomy and strength is still around in me today, though in a very tenuous manner. I keep catching it for a moment then losing it for long periods. It is a feeling that I could be a person, I could have a voice, and I could say things I decided to say. It is an absolute novelty.
For others it is probably something taken for granted, something they have always had and can't imagine not having, but I have never felt like this before. I have never conceived of having so much freedom.
I get to feel like this sometimes. It is very difficult to hold it, but I can imagine how it must be to just have it and be like this. Just be, without thinking what I should be like in this situation, with these people. Just BE.
Another thing, this healthy agression, kind of fiercefulness. I think I felt it for a while too. I felt so strong and consolidated, like the child in me was not exposed, be was inside the adult who was on the outside and would not let anybody from outside to fuck with me. I like this feeling of being put together, but I am not able yet to keep it, it is coming and going. I don't always feel comfortable around other people, around men especially.
Yeah, he is a good writer, he can name the changes that he feels. I am a bit envious of this ability