Is this how you treat people?
I am shocked. I am a close friend and colleague of Sadly and had noted that this forum had a policy of being unkind to those who do not toe the party line on issues in therapy. And believe me, you have many party lines going on here at the moment and you are indeed a clique. You dislike newcomers with different views and you are abusive to people who question some of the much liked theories. I have seen this happen a number of times here.
Several people reached out to Sadly and remarked that they do not dare post on this site as it it obviously a small clique and that alternative views (not agreed with by the moderator) are not welcome. You actually gang up against people, as you did with Sadly three times. And you consider this okay.
I feel you should be ashamed of yourselves.
Not one of you thought to ask where Sadly had gone and when she pm-d a few of you to say what had happened only one replied. Which presumes that the rest of you are happy to stay in your clique with your own little theories that support each others view and to hell with hurting a very genuine and kind and gentle person who posted here and helped many of you.
Truly, think about this. Who asked her to be terminated\? If it was the moderator, the great and not to be challenged AG, then shame on you. If it was someone else, shame on you too. Look at what you did. Is this right? Is it fair? It is sensitive?
I am shocked and many of my colleagues are shocked at how this site it run.