Skip to main content

The PsychCafe
Share, connect, and learn.
9 replies

What I said to li'l one

thekidthekidMember
Li'l one - you are NOT alone anymore.

I am here and I've always been here. I just didn't know you were there or how much pain and fear you've been carrying all this time.

I am so sorry, li'l one.

Once I found you cowering alone, petrified and filthy, sucking on your thumb in the corner, I didn't know how to help you.

I am so sorry li'l one.

You don't need to keep all this pain to yourself anymore or protect me from it. T is teaching me how to help you.

Wherever I go, you go. Wherever you go, I go.

PLEASE, let me take some of the load from your tiny shoulders. Let me soak you in a nice warm bath with bubbles and then wrap you in soft, comfy cozy pyjamas and rock you to sleep in my arms. You can suck your thumb. It's okay. I won't get mad like the other big peepel did. You're allowed to be little now.

Li'l one - you are NOT alone anymore.

Original Post

Replies sorted oldest to newest

thekidthekidMember
When I repeated this to li'l one last night, I actually felt her taking longer, deeper breaths. This hasn't happened for a long, long time.

If I didn't experience this first-hand, I would have a very hard time relating to this. She IS there and needs me, no matter how much she continues to fight it (and me).

I cannot give up on her.

The Kid

Add Reply

Post

Membership Required

We're sorry. You must be signed in to continue. Sign In or Register
×
Are you sure you want to remove from your Block List?
×
Loading...
×
When you block a person, they can no longer invite you to a private message or post to your profile wall. Replies and comments they make will be collapsed/hidden by default. Finally, you'll never receive email notifications about content they create or likes they designate for your content.
Note: if you proceed, you will no longer be following .
×
Advanced Search
Advanced Search
Link copied to your clipboard.
×

Access to this requires a premium membership.

Be a Patron Member

Get psychotherapy help to make your therapy easier and better.



Yes, I've learned about all the benefits of being a Patron Member (Click here if you missed seeing them: Community Psychotherapy Help

Yes, I understand that...

1. I can do a 7 day free trial and my credit card will not be charged until that period is up.

2. I can cancel at any time before then and my card will not be charged.

3. That once my credit card is charged, there is no refund offered.

Have a special coupon?

4. If I'm using a coupon my receipt won't show the discounted amount (It'll show $7.95). However, I understand that it will go through as $2.95 when I am billed after the 7 day trial. (According to the current promotion, this discount applies to the first three months of my membership - and as long as I use the coupon in the checkout.)*

*Please note that after the 3 months, billing will revert to the regular monthly fee.
**The fee posted below is our standard billing fee (ie. using no coupon).

7-Day Free Trial, then $7.95 per Month (plus tax if applicable)
×