What I'm about at this precise moment in my therapy is as the title says, my wall that I built from my first days on this earth are beginning to be dismantled and today in my therapy It felt as if I could remember the moments this begun to happen, and it felt as If I remembered that lost part of myself, the person I was "meant" to be, and it felt so frustrating and scary and triggered huge anger in me once I'd left session.
Sitting and processing the session I feel glad that I have reached this point, and am now aware of just how much I have created mental defences, shut people out, because I had to be independent and self sufficient growing up, as my T said today, it was absolute for me, there was no half measures, to survive I had to create a wall around myself and split of the part of me that has needs, that wants to protest at injustices done to me. It felt at one point as if my skin was coming alive, up until this point I really had no idea I had feelings, I Just felt dead basically, and have mananged to fake my way through life.
I wondered if others have been at this point and how it was for them?