physical relationships with T and such that I would have been shocked yesterday. After my session, my T were basically saying goodbye as he is leaving for a 5 week trek in the Himalayas. He knew I was experiencing some fear about his leaving. Anyway, on my way out the door, he said, "Could I take the liberty of asking for a hug?" I said sure, gave him a hug and whispered, "stay safe". then I left.
Im not sure if the hug was for my sake, I actually think it was for both of us. But he asked me!! I was floored. And it felt so comforting, like I was hugging a familiar friend. Boundaries crossed? I will feel is hug the whole time he is gone. Probably the intent on his part.