insomniac here to the rescue. came across a really short explanation http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/...119&d=1&w=11&e=29099Read More...

I see it's been done! Thanks JD LLRead More...

Thanks Blue!Read More...

So glad you all got a smile out of it I feel blessed to have my T.Read More...

Hey there Anon, thanks for letting us know how you are doing. Sorry that things are still rough for you . Hope you are managing to take good care of yourself, despite the messages telling you otherwise. Sending you lots of supportive hugs LLRead More...

(((( SD )))) I can very much relate to what you’re describing, and it makes total sense that such a situation would completely freak you out, given what happened with previous T. Can I say though that Ts generally ought to be in supervision as a matter of course. I think it could be different elsewhere, but in UK that’s standard and I believe a condition of acceptance on some of the official therapist registers. As such, a T seeking supervision oughtn’t be a threat to the therapy itself...Read More...

Somedays, that was beautifully explained - it makes so much sense to me. What bothers me is that when a client already knows that this is the kind of contact they need and openly asks the T, T's seem to see it as manipulative and not to be taken seriously but to be thwarted instead. A kind of Murphy's Law in therapy I'm so glad your T is working with you on this and not attempting to push you to be more 'independent'. TAS I see no reason whatsoever for your T to withdraw 'touching base'...Read More...

I totally go through music-less periods LL, though they are usually short lived. Sometimes I just need quiet. Period. Other times, I need anything but quiet! Sometimes I listen to music that I know will hurt, because I want to just cry for a while. Strange, I know, but I do know what sets me off, and if I am crabby and just need an excuse to cry, I have a playlist just for that purpose. Songs for rough patches..... Here's a few: P!nk - Perfect, Please Don't Leave Me Green Day - Wake Me Up...Read More...

so true Ang T.Read More...

Jane, thanks for the update. You were as informative as you could be, I suspect, under the circumstances. Good job. I missed everything that came down, so I haven't commented on anything, regarding this issue. I must say I am quite confused about it all, but I am glad that it is getting resolved.Read More...

Lamplighter - Thank you so much! I appreciate the info and your post...it made me giggle And I feel better...I will not dismiss...worry no more!!!! lolRead More...

I pretty much agree with TAS here. I think if there is a real conflict it should be dealt with privately and mediated by shrinklady or the mods. However if it's something that's gone public on the OF, we should be advised it's being dealt with and the parties involved are being helped through the problem. just my 2 cents worth and quick gut reaction !Read More...

Taking down again. I do not want my T to find and read here...although she probably doesn't have the time I would need to say things to her so this makes me uncomfortable.Read More...

Good thread! Never liked Jose but like B&J's Went to the factory too. I'm in Jersey and absolutely love Vermont! Haven't been there in the last 4 years but used to go every year. I have a brother in California. (good place for him!) The weather is nice though. Apple Crisp?!!! Love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Read More...

Thank you Lamplighter! I hope it goes well. Thank you for your encouragement T.Read More...

Yeah, goodbyes are tough for me too. I'm not very good at them. hugs to all feeling sadRead More...

Interesting idea BLT, cause it sure was exposure - four hours straight of exposure! All I know is I'm exhausted cause of the extended state of heightened anxiety. I wish tomorrow was sunday, I need one more day of the weekend to recover from today!Read More...

This looks interesting Outsider! Thanks for posting!Read More...

Thanks Liese, heldincompassion,born2write, TN - I was not ok when I typed this out. While I still feel that she could have been more mindful of what she said in her message, I know she didn't mean it the way I interperted it. Yes, she is a good T. A very good one. I know I reacted that way b/c I was so vulnerable just like born2write and TN said. I ended up texting her back (still in my very vulnerable state) - "Its fine. I know you have a life and other patients outside of me. I'm not...Read More...

The moderators are part of what f ?? Perhaps you can tell me what I am part of, I'd be really interested to know. starfishyRead More...

I read most of it too, and related, but was waiting until I had time to finish it to comment on it.Read More...

Oh, the ukelele version is a beauty.Read More...

((((Jane)))) Enjoy the puppy, and I'm so glad you're taking riding lessons. My time around horses was the best time ever.Read More...

As the Moderator of this forum, I am taking the step to close this thread. There are a number of reasons why I am taking this step. First, because I feel that the original question posed by Lamplighter was answered. Lampers... if you have any other related questions, please PM me and I will be happy to answer them. Next, I can see that where the topic is going is potentially not healthy and safe for ANY member here and could trigger in all kinds of ways and/or cause hurt feelings. Lastly, it...Read More...

LL ~ thank you lots. lol. Typo jane strikes again. I meant to type 2 or 3 times a week.Read More...